Monday, October 10, 2011

WOMEN

I’m dedicating this post to all the women who came across my life and not

Life starts with sleeping with all the warmth, our sweet mom gives during our 1st day on earth, on the hospital bed. Life progress when our dad lifts us to reach out the moon and catches back when we falls likes raindrop back to his hands. Life teaches ,when we shares a small piece of chocolate with our sister and again fights for the bigger piece..

Mom, dad, sister…the three sided triangle, will be our whole world till we join school. Then our world will change to something else. It starts with 100, stays 50, reduces to 10 and ends with 1.Yes, they are friends. All, most important and very special days, the day we comes out from mom's womb,1st day at school, marriage day, take any important day..tears will accompany you that day for sure. First day at school ,i don't know how many still remembers that day. Whether we remember or not it is a very special day in our lives.

Up to 7th or 8th std everything happens will be same for all. But after that our gang decides what you are. Will start commending on handsome guys. Will easily fall in love and at the same time will study for our old triangle world. When it comes to 10th,a gal proves who she is by studying, studying and studying like anything.

One quarter of a gals life completes there. The next phase probably is not so fair because of carrier deciding pressure, from all the sides. Still we will get time to commend on all guys sitting in front of us in the tuition classes. To wake up early morning go and yawning in some other house is what is known as +2 tuition .This is 1st phase of life any girl could seriously fall in love with someone and find someone more important than herself will probably won’t last more than 2 years.

The next phase which is the very important life is where a gal starts to recognize her own character. Surely whether for boys or girls, college life is too important. Rather than hanging out with friend, to be in love, to get a job and all something special is there. This is here you will find some whom you will give every rights to love, hurt, hug, share, care and all which she may not have given to her parents also.They are our college friends.This is here you will try to learn there is some differences between friends also. There are some with whom you can’t stay away from, there are some whom you just like to sit and crack jokes. They comment on our makeup, will come for shopping, and do pranks over there. I will tell frankly for girls if you want to really know what is independent life, to know how fun it is to walk, enjoy, talk and to be yourself and do whatever you want and to live not to satisfy anyone then you should really study in a women’s college. This is the only place in the whole life of a girl where she decides, she rules and she dominates.

Getting into job is where she starts to learn seriously about life. This is where she starts to learn how to adjust to situations. But she won’t know all the golden phases which passed by will become just memories and the deadline is just near to her one she gets into job. Yes this is where the fear of marriage comes. We can’t stop this as it is also just like another law of nature.

MARRIAGE…..it is always said that marriage is every gals dream. Supposed to be the most important day in every gals life. A beautiful dream which everyone loves to have. Ya it is true up to a certain point in life. When it really comes up to parents searching for a guy who has to take care of her for the rest of her life, it is a different feeling. Every girl may have a second thought that better had a lover instead of marrying a complete stranger.

This is where we will start thinking, to be a guy was better. He grows with his parents, he lives with his parents and he can continue living with his parents the rest of his life. All a girl can do is to pray not to get a hard hearted smoker or drinker. It is hard to leave our house where we started our journey and reached where we are know, it is harder to leave our room which has seen our tears, happiness, heard our own music composition, which has seen our stupid dance, our fashion show, our dreams and all which no one else has never seen before. Above all these things it is much harder to go to a completely different place and live in a completely different house with a stranger and his family members. I must say, you guys are really lucky that you will get a partner without losing anything.

Where our marriage dreams starts to spoil is when some people whom we have never seen comes and starts bargaining for us in front of our world, our parents who are supposed to give all there life to them. This is where we will start wondering our life has the value of 100pounds of gold, latest model cars and acres of lands. The funniest part is even parents won’t be able to know this much valuable life will end up in right hands or not until the next day after marriage.

Finally marriage will be fixed with some guy with good job and our parents think can take care of us better than them, which anyway no one can. The rest of the days will be colorful again with phone calls and sweet messages. And finally the day comes which is the most important, special and at the same time the most difficult and saddest day. The guy will tie a knot which makes us get out of the triangle life where we slept with our mother and played with our father, fought with of sister, it makes us get out of the colorful life where we hanged out with friends, we cried on friends shoulder, we hugged tightly when unexpectedly passing university exams, gets out of the world where we do tons of shopping with our own salary..it gets out of us from everything and makes us completely his.

To my best knowledge, up to this every gals life is almost same. The rest is decided by the family where she goes to, the guy she is married to. Lucky are ones who gets a guy who takes care of her and never give a chance to miss whatever she had. Unlucky are some who has to bare horrible smell of alcohol and cigarette. Whatever god decides for her, she will adjust, whoever is her husband, she will gift him the most precious gift, a new life. She will live for her husband, she will die for her child, she will look after her in-laws, and she will take care of everything whether she gets the best or worst. She is WOMEN, the backbone of every family, who forgets her life and lives for someone who is totally different for her. As a mother, sister, friend, lover, and wife which ever role she plays, only she can complete it with full perfection. PROUD TO BE A WOMEN.


Monday, February 11, 2008

nee

njan polum ariyathae
en jeevanil vannu nee
ennilae ennil njan
kandu ninae modhamodae
marubhoomiyam en jeevanil
nertha manjukanamay nee
en kannuneerkanangal
kai cheppinullil vangy
manimuthukalakiyathum nee
jeevitha yatrayil njan
patharumbol
kara sparshanathal
ennae thangiyathum nee
eruladanja en jeevitha vedhiyil
nithyamay jwalichathum nee
vishramam thedi njan alanju
kandu njan nin madithattum
aasvasam poondu njan vishramikavae
njan polum ariyathae ,
en jeevanil ninnakanu nee

Monday, January 14, 2008

smile


Smile Is The essences of LIfe

Smile Is The blow of breeze

Smile Is The fragrance of flowers

Smile Is The courage to face life

Smile Is The mask of success

Smile Is The way of happiness

Smile Is The key to Love

Smile Is The colors of rinbow

Smile Is The sunlight to brighten a day

Smile Is The shine of stars

Smile Is The sing of beauty

Smile Is The Power which can rule ever hearts

Smile Is The key which opens one's heart

Smile Is The medicine for wounded person


A Sincere Smile is the most precious wealth in the world.


SO, Always keep Smiling........

bcoz some one feels when u smile

Sunday, December 16, 2007

hindhu beliefs!!!!!!!!

2day i heard 2 of my hindhu frnds talking abt siva ,krishna and all(*oops they r not my boyfriends,i mean the lord siva,krishna and all :)).i simply listened to their talks.1 of my frnd told that she is afraid to ask siva anything bcoz lord siva gets angry very easily.the only word that passed thru my mind while hearing this was"ridiculous".they further talked abt the fasting prayers for getting a nice hus,and all.i was just wondering r these people living in this 20th century or not.:o.
i just want to share my opinions thru my blog.regarding this topic i just want to say dat the holy buks of hindhus like ramayana,bhagavath gita etc contains lots of"stories" and these rama,krishna,vishnu etc are just characters in these stories.they r not lords.but just characters.its quite stupid to make some statues and name it and then to pray to a stone.i agree that these buks also contains lots of gud things like the quotes given by krisha to arjun in the bhagavad gita.v shud knw these quotes.its gud.but making those characters ur lord is simply ridiculous.
also,in some temples ladies and not allowed to enter and in some gents are not allowed.i want to ask u ppl something.both ladies and gents are created by god,both hav equal rights infrnt of god.in almost all other religions both r allowed to come and worship god anytime.but here in temples if some mendicate or some1 like that enters a temple,thr will be lots of issues going on.poor mendicate ,he is also created by god.temples are only meant for rich.y like that?:o
in christianity,there are lots of miracles happening day by day and in islam also miracles happenns.but in hindhuism i have never heard about any miracles.then y people run behind these stones.?these r the questions for which i need clear answers.
i think hindhu religion exists in india and maybe a very few more countries.and i dont think india can come forward with these much superstitious people.god exist.and there is only 1 god.but how u ppl can workship above 1000 gods :o ?
take 1 big stone,place it under a tree,put some sandal,turmeric powderand sindhoor nearby it.cover the 3/4th of the stone using a red or yellow cloth.if possible place 1 knife or some thing like dat nearby it.i bet from the very next day onwards ppl passing this stone will stop and pray and worship that stone.ie wat happening in india.go thru the history,there is no king like krishna,dharmaputra,ravana and all.becoz they are only characters frm different stories.im not writing this to hurt anyone.but think about this.

Thursday, August 23, 2007

missing those sweet days

i think the title gives a clear idea that those days are childhood days.yup... i really miss that days.the funs i had with my sis and cousins in our native place.we were enough to turn the house upside down.
the first thing that comes into my mind is our hide and seek game.once my sis went and hide on a marshy place.my cousin brother was about to find her.he found all others including me :d and we were searching for her.Hmmmm no way."where is she?"was a big "?"infrnt of us.suddenly we heard a loud scream."SNAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!".yes it was my sis.she screamed and began to ran.we were not bothered about the snake and all.we were happy and were jumping with happiness of finding her.the face of my sis turned beetroot due to anger .her face at that momentis a clear picture in my mind
once i was searching for my cosin brother and he was at the top of a tall tree.same time i was standing in the shade of that same tree.and i screamed that i failed to find u,come back brother.he jumped from the tree and teased me a lot.i was angry with him.but now i miss that anger.
i think the very same day we were having a round table conference.the very big fact was that there was no table and we were sitting on the rough ground.the conference was not about political parties and all.i was all about smokers.we were wondering how people make rings of fumes out out of a small thing and we too wanted to test this.but were to go for a cigarette.?a bulb lighted on my brothers head.he took some papers,rolled and filled it with sand.at last we also got a cigarette.hehehe.he lighted it.we were eagerly waiting to see the rings of fumes.but .......the paper burnt within fraction of seconds and "sweet smell"came from the burnt sand.instead of small rings of fumes that small area completely covered eith fumes and i just miss the tears came from our eyes due to our laugh and cough.
now my sis and 1 cousin are professionals.no time for us to go to our native place.and my younger cousin is doing his 12th.so he is also busy.when he is free i will be fighting with exams.and so im sure that those days wont come back................so i miss those days. :(

Sunday, August 12, 2007

my first luv,a big flop



my 1st luv hapnd when i was in 9th standard :D.ouch dont scold me.i dont know whether it is a gud age to luv sum1 or not.anyway mine was a one way love.since it was a one way luv,ofcourse there was no traffic at all :).we were in the same tution class .he was not a hash bush type.just a simple guy.i luved his way of talking and smiling.afterall i was a madhavan (film actor) fan that time(now no) and he resembled madhavan.i was longing 2 tell him that i luv him,but i cant.hmmmmm y cant he propose me 1st ;).this satetment was just to comfort my mind.bcoz i dont like 2 go behind luv and all at that studying age.so after calculating all the after effects i decided to place the luv inside my mind itslf.
4 years passed and now im a btech student,and u all know that,rite :).now i have 1 vague picture of him in my mind.and i just laugh at myself when i think of the ideas and silly luv matters of a 9th standard gal.now i hav got a quite matured mind.i have my own decisions.and i would luv to marry a boy my parents suggests.above all i have to study and want to get a gud job.so after 9th till now there is no place 4 luv iside my heart.
And the only thing i am not understanding is that y i search his face among crowds and in orkut.why i ask students frm his school whether they know him or not.
whether i want him as my true frnd or inside my heart in 1 corner, am i waiting for him to tell ma luv story?